ps: if you’re worried abt your mom, in general (due to breast cancer family history), ask her to have a mammogram done soon (if she isn’t having them regularly already) and to go to the doctor for periodic consults. Talk to her abt your worries. It’s ok! It’s better to speak up and let her know. She might already be going to these checkups without telling you. She might already be doing everything she can to make sure she’s fine. Or, if not, she may do this after she hears that you’re worried.

It’s wonderful that you care so much and are alert to these issues. **Yet, don’t stress too much over them either, relax girl! Your mom is a reponsible adult.

Breastcancer.org has some good information…

Don’t be nervous too much. There are lots of possibilities for hair loss. But people are suggested to do annual health or breast examination. The safest way is to ask your mum to visit a speciality doctor to do the examination. Cancer is more likely to be cured in the early stage.

Your mum can also do the self-exam firstly as follows:
“1. Lie down. Flatten your right breast by placing a pillow or towel under your right shoulder. Place your right arm behind your head. Examine your right breast with your left hand.
2. Use the pads, not the tips, of the middle three fingers on your left hand. With fingers flat, press gently using a circular, rubbing motion and feel for lumps. In small, dime-sized circles without lifting the fingers, start at the outermost top edge of your breast and spiral in toward the nipple.
3. Press firmly enough to feel the different breast tissues, using three different pressures. First, light pressure to just move the skin without jostling the tissue beneath, then medium pressure pressing midway into the tissue, and finally deep pressure to probe more deeply down to the ribs or to the point just short of discomfort.
4. Completely feel all of the breast and chest area up under your armpit, up to the collarbone, and all the way over to your shoulder to cover breast tissue that extends toward the shoulder.
5. Gently squeeze both nipples and look for discharge.

After you have completely examined your right breast, examine your left breast using the same method with your right hand. You may want to examine your breasts or do an extra exam while showering. It’s easy to slide soapy hands over your skin and to feel anything unusual. You should also check your breasts in a mirror, looking for any change in size or contour, dimpling of the skin, or spontaneous nipple discharge.”
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You can also learn more knowlege about sypmtoms, causes, effects and preventions of cancers, as well as a wide range of cancer therapies on “www.smile.org.au”